Wick while it is admirable that Pelini wants to be at his daughter's game, you are so wrong. I would like to know how many coaches shows Tressel, Heacock, and Wofford missed? Take it a step further, how many shows has Urban Meyer missed? We all have commitments, and it is part of the job.
All of us have missed family events because of work commitments. if his daughter was playing in the state finals, that's a different story. Doing these shows has to be in his contract. Let's be honest here, he doesn't come because he doesn't like this part of the job. Bo is a great defensive mind, and enjoys coaching, it is obvious he doesn't like any of the other aspects of being a head coach.
He was a pain in the a** at Nebraska for the media and administration, and the same here. But at the end of the day, his boss, Ron Strollo needs to demand he honor these commitments.